Women and Respect at home

Respect is a two-way street. You need to show respect in order to be respected. As a husband, you can start this positive chain in a marriage when you respect your wife’s feelings and make her feel cared for.

     We do not ever hit or threaten to our girls or women. It means we listen to girls and women and respect their opinions. We don't talk over them. 

Mom should teach her boy:

     We can  see many educated men in society, they talk kindly to their mother and sisters even with outside women. But in their marital life all are turned to reverse. Verbal abuse, hitting, scolding and frightening their own woman. She is his wife, instead of treating her as mother, these men literally breaking their heart and bones. They just feel her as slave. Mom should talk to her son and tell him in thoughtful manner. Such conversations promote empathy in man.

     Where from came this opinion, think twice. The mother should be answerable for his behaviour. 

      I know it’s “not all boys.” I know that. But it’s just too many. Parents should keep their boys away from porn. Watching porn develops  the attitudes of domestic violence and disrespect of women.

     Our sons should be learning about healthy relationships where people love one another and express that love in healthy way. They need to understand more than the mechanics of sex. They need to understand commitment in a relationship.

 Boys must know :

     They should not touch, should not kiss her without her permission. May be he is a boyfriend, lover or a Husband. There is nothing much difference in between these three words. Marriage is just a licence to a man - woman relationship. This is just a social acceptance to a pair to live together. This Licence is not given to a man to kill his woman.

     Killing is not a literal murder. It has too many meanings and methods. A complete grown man who is represented in society, is also a great evil at their marital life. The real shadow of that man shows to their woman. This killing sadistic behaviour not comes at a time. It is a gradual mental status of a man from years. 

      Nobody likes being shouted at because it is not a sign of respect. Anyone who shouts at their wife doesn’t respect her. You can see your wife as a part of yourself.

Why do women struggle at home:

     A woman is always in adjustable manner from her childhood. She fights for equality from mother womb. This society calls a baby girl like '_ve' and a baby boy as  '+ve'. Later on this so called '+ve' man become negative to girls. They use their strength as asset to harass his wife. 

     A woman who suffered with her man( boyfriend, lover, husband) is with a dead soul, living with him for kids, parents and society. This is a old version of an Indian woman. We think so...

     “Self-respect is the root of discipline: The sense of dignity.” she couldn't resist it forever. There is a limit for her soul. Please stop to treat them like money making machines and sexy dolls.

  

A sweet warning:

     Hey, Handsome men... Find some time out of your busy schedule to show some love and care to the girls, when they need it the most. 

     If she says NO, the entire human race will be wiped off the face of this earth in less than 100 years. So Respect her beauty by praising it and don't dis-respect it by passing dirty comments..

Thank you 🙏

Women Equality

                              

                           ✍️ Bhagyamati.